what they fear is their own sexuality more than the LBGTQ+ people, the fear that others might find out their fetishized those in the LBGTQ+ community.

Because it has been so stigmatized by society that being anything but cisgender heterosexual is wrong.

So they hide in their closets only coming out to point their fingers at others in the attempt to cover their own issues with sexuality. Not realizing that when they point their finger at others 3 of those fingers are pointing back at them.

They really need therapy.