Of course it is hard exhausting and expensive that's how you get those super powers. But the same goes for being a real man, it takes effort to accomplish anything worth doing, what would be the point if it was easy? But that's not what it is about, it's about being happy in our skin and not judged for being the best we can be. It would seem to be for selfish reasons but really it is so I can be the best me I can for others. So to fill in my answer being a woman is rewarding