It is painful enough to imagine that predators come in various shapes and sizes ages races ethnicity and the like. As a victim I am used to being blamed for everything under the sun. Like the chief of the local police told me "the victim always pays. " That would seem counter intuitive of course the victim pays but so does everyone else. So it is not my rights that have been violated like my body sadly so did yours. It isn't one or the other it is we the people. Just saying it stinks.