I have worn many pieces ,and woreout many pairs of shoes and the like . absolutely love heals the higher the better 7" no sweat dance away. then one day I was thinking about what it mean to be a woman,how do you define a woman. and after a few agonizing minutes i realized that women are many things and that is as vast as there are stars in the sky. so i had to refie this description. again I spent a few agonizing seconds ,did i say minutes. and realized to describe it you would have to stereotype. that didn't work either. so I thought about all of my beautiful clothes and said you now a beautiful woman can rock anything and still be beautiful. it is the woman not the clothes , so where do i see myself in this , I am that beautiful woman and when people notice that no matter what i have on then i know i am getting somewhere. ie when i can rock a pair of mens jeans and a t shirt,, i am in👍 ,,,i can do that now. so it's a little tweaking like any girl my age and that's sweet . ai have to work on the mental part from being misgendered and traumatized from years of being dismissed. my husband bless his heart never misgendered me. it made it hard to stay made at the man when he would tell me stop being a stupid bitch. haha god I loved him, oh pooh now i am going to cry.. fashion police sweatpants and sneakers or leggings fruppy is in no heals no jewelry. but hey keep that stuff bell bottoms are coming back.